EXCUSES, THAT IS WHAT THEY ALL END UP BEING, EXCUSES
Sometimes I slip and reference my ex-wife as my 'wife'. I could go on and on as to why, but my SFC said that it makes people think that I have 'whatever' FOR her.
I do not.
I could make a case, but why? If it still brings me back to 'doing not', then DON'T.
She is my ex-wife. Period.